Oprah, Naomi and the Incredible Factor - Darnyelle A. Jervey - Speaker, Coach, Author

Recently, I was watching Oprah and she had SuperModel Naomi Campbell on the show. Naomi talked of many things that have transpired in her life but what stood out the most to me was:
1. She had a desire to find an inner peace and beauty that matched her outer beauty. (Her Incredible Factor)

How many of us could say that this is also what plagues you? There was definitely a time in my life when I could - about 8 years ago to be exact. To the outside world, much like that of Naomi's , I had it going on but inside, where it counts, it was dark, desolate and scary. I was afraid of truly becoming that which I really desired to be.

So what changed?

I got to know the lover of my soul and in that process many things about myself were revealed. The most important of them, that I am Incredible and that there is something about me that makes others want to be, do and have more just because they heard me share from my heart - my Incredible Factor. That I am real, authentic and that I care about empowering others, that I am more than enough and that I was given everything I need to success in my life at birth...I did the work to know me, love me, appreciate me and become the me I was created to be. Ms. Incredible One.

You are greatness. You are powerful. You are beautiful. You are a gift to the world. You are More than Enough.

As I watched Naomi, what I really think she was saying is "I want to know my purpose." I found myself wanting to encourage her, to let her know that she is already who she desires to be. She must give herself permission to be herself. I wanted to tell her how beautiful her soul is and how she is not her past and that because she has made a non-negotiable decision to stop giving her past permission to speak, it will stop. I was so proud of her transparency and honesty that she wants more in her life - a deeper meaning, a purpose alignment, the Incredible Factor.

So what does all of this have to do with all of you?

Many women feel what Naomi discussed on the show - the time is now to live your dreams and identify your purpose but many have no idea how to make it happen. Many are in jobs they hate and want desperately to get it but they are allowing the economy to be their reason to stay. Many have a hidden passion, one that will enhance the lives of others but they are too afraid of what might happen if they REALLY do what they have been secretly praying for. Many lack the knowledge of how to achieve the next level in their life, career, business and need direction to make it happen.

I'd like to help. Your purpose is your reason why. I can name counteless successful people and less often than you might think do they say, "I want to make a boatload of cash." What they say instead is "I have a dream, I know my purpose and I want to add value to the lives of others using my business to fund and expand it."

When I am doing a coaching consult often the "thing" the potential client says is missing from their life is money. Let me be clear - it's not the money, its what the money can do to help you live your dream and purpose....Big Difference.

I'm so grateful to start each new day elated that my purpose, my gift, is bigger than me and all I have to do is surrender in obedience to the laws of the universe. Incredible....

I've got a treat for you. If you go right now to http://www.incredibleoneenterprises.com you can get a F.R.E.E. CD download of How to Use YOUR Incredible Factor to Quantum Leap in Life and Business - it's high-value and high-content - filled with tips you can implement right now to began the journey of exploding your life!!!!

Through her workshops, courses, books and other products, Darnyelle A. Jervey is transforming the lives of others to define and unleash their Incredible Factor by imparting skills, strategies and solutions that lead to a quantum leap in life and business. For more information about Darnyelle, please visit http://www.incredibleoneenterprises.com.

Copyright (c) 2010 by Darnyelle A. Jervey. All Rights Reserved.

Good Morning...Heartache?! Darnyelle A. Jervey - Speaker, Coach, Author

Before you give me a "what you talkin' 'bout Willis" look, let me explain. No, I'm not fresh off of watching Mahogany or listening to Diana belt out the lyrics to the song that many sing morning after morning with a connotation different than the one from which I write today.

On this Walk it Out Wednesday, I have a question for you. When you think about your gift (what you alone were created to do for this world,) does your heart ache for those who need it?

I mean, really. Stop and think as I share something with you. Mine does. I am delighted to greet each new day in excitement and with splendor oozing out of my pores. I am always in awe of what God is up to in my life. I start the day in gratitude and then recite many affirmations as I move to visualizing what I am expecting from the abundant universe in which I live. But many wake to discontent and confusion over their life prupose. They get up to go to jobs they hate but can't quit for fear of how the bills will get paid. They dread the morning commute and take a long time getting out of the car hoping that maybe one of the kids will be sick and they will have a reason not to enter into the walls that bind them to an existence of mediocrity.

Oh, how my heart aches for you. I mean, I being honest. I know how you feel. I use to feel the same way when I felt trapped in Corporate America. But what I found is that by defining and unleashing my Incredible Factor (my secret sauce, my special God-given gift) I could breakdown, breakout and breakthrough to the life I was created to live!

Am I talking to you this Walk it Out Wednesday? I want nothing more than for you to realize that who you are was not created for lack, scarcity or doubt. You were created for more than enough. A passion for work that feels more like play. A passion for the meaningful.

And it is still possible for you.

I'm releasing details real soon for Incredible Factor 101, my new empowerment challenge to prepare you for the life of your dreams. If you want to be included, got to my website and register for our weekly Ezine, The Incredible Factor. Visit now, http://www.incredibleoneenterprises.com

Be Incredible,
Darnyelle

Darnyelle A. Jervey is a professional speaker and certified life coach committed to imparting skills, strategies and solutions to define and unleash the Incredible in you. Her desire is that you stop playing small and start living the Big life, with Big results. For more information, visit her website www.incredibleoneenterprises.com

Copyright (c) 2010 by Darnyelle A. Jervey. All Rights Reserved.