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A few years back I use to hear this song on the gospel station called, "You Can't Stradle the Fence," and as I was preparing today's blog, that song came rushing back to me.....
For all intents and purposes, I'm, of course, referring to your Incredible Factor. And your Incredible Factor cannot stradle the fence - either your gift adds value or it takes away from the value in others (I guess you could argue if it does the latter then it's not a gift!) It cannot do both and you shouldn't want it to.
As you are out and about "doing you" take the time to ensure that every interaction adds value...your Incredible Factor (brand, gift) doesn't get a day off. ...Be authentic, people can see through your fakeness a mile away. Be genuine, smile, laugh, have fun, play up your passion and engage fully in every interaction as if the person with whom you speak has a sign that says "Make me feel Incredible," Apply your gift consistently and watch your followers and interactions grow because who you are is consistent and others are getting to know, like and trust who you are and the gift you offer to the world.
So to prevent your Incredible Factor from Stradling the Fence,
1. Get clear about the gift you offer to world
2. Review your daily activities and assess what activities are inconsistent to your gift
3. Make a non-negotiable decision to make adjustments where appropriate
4. Enroll the help of a coach to help define and unleash your Incredible Factor
Still stradling the fence, no worries. I have a solution coming for you real soon that will help you leverage your Incredible Factor and go from passion to profit when you get clear and systematize what it will take to share your gift with the world. In the mean time, get your F.R.E.E. copy of my CD "how to Use Your Increddible Factor to Quantum Leap in Life & Business" on this page or my company website: http://www.incredibleoneenterprises.com
Be Incredible,
Darnyelle
Copyright (c) 2010 by Darnyelle A. Jervey. All Rights Reserved.
Showing posts with label mindset shift. Show all posts
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Wednesday, January 27, 2010
Can't You Find It?
When your focus is on what's missing in your life, do you ever stopped to wander why in the world you can't find it?
I remember one time that I couldn't find the keys to my car. I mean I tore my home apart looking for those keys. I kept retracing my steps and trying to remember where I'd seen them last but I just couldn't find them. Late for a meeting, I finally conceded and grabbed my spare set to get out the door. As I drove to the meeting, my mind was preoccupied with my missing keys. I could barely focus on the drive and relaxing myself before the meeting because I was so wound up over those missing keys. Even once the meeting was over, immediately, my mind raced back to my missing keys and where I would look when I finally got back home. Needless to say, I did not find my keys that day or the next. It wasn't until I changed my focus and stopped operating from a place of confusion, frustration and lack that they appeared out of no where. Ever happened to you?
Why does that happen????!!!!
I believe it's because what ever you focus upon gets bigger - lack of money, relationship, health, in my case missing keys, etc - they all tend to stand out a little more when we focus on those things. For those who constantly say, "I'm broke," or "I can't find a good man," or better still my favorite 'I can't seem to get any peace," let me enlighten you: until your focus (mindset) switches from what you don't have or can't find, you will not welcome it into your experience. If we instead begin to focus on what we do have and take a stance of gratitude for what we currently have in our lives, we allow ourselves to open to the possiblity of welcoming into our lives what we really want.
It may sound crazy but it's true. Take relationships as an example, everyone knows that when you stop looking for Mr. Right or Ms. Perfect, they appear out of thin air...is it coincidence, NO!
Do you have a desire for living a life filled with passion, abundance, confidence and expectation...but somehow you can't find what it would take to make it a reality? It is my desire to unveil proven techniques to experience a life filled with each of these and more in my upcoming TeleSeminar Find Your PACE.
Sometimes you just have to change your vantage point to see that what you wanted and needed was there all the time.
For more information about the upcoming TeleSeminar, Find Your PACE, please visit http://www.incredibleoneenterprises.com/find_your_pace
Darnyelle A. Jervey is a speaker, coach and author committed to transforming the lives of women through empowerment. More than a motivator, she imparts skills, strategies and solutions that enhances the lives of her clients. Her company, Incredible One Enterprises is a full service empowerment firm in Newark, DE.
Copyright (c) 2010 Darnyelle A. Jervey All Rights Reserved.
I remember one time that I couldn't find the keys to my car. I mean I tore my home apart looking for those keys. I kept retracing my steps and trying to remember where I'd seen them last but I just couldn't find them. Late for a meeting, I finally conceded and grabbed my spare set to get out the door. As I drove to the meeting, my mind was preoccupied with my missing keys. I could barely focus on the drive and relaxing myself before the meeting because I was so wound up over those missing keys. Even once the meeting was over, immediately, my mind raced back to my missing keys and where I would look when I finally got back home. Needless to say, I did not find my keys that day or the next. It wasn't until I changed my focus and stopped operating from a place of confusion, frustration and lack that they appeared out of no where. Ever happened to you?
Why does that happen????!!!!
I believe it's because what ever you focus upon gets bigger - lack of money, relationship, health, in my case missing keys, etc - they all tend to stand out a little more when we focus on those things. For those who constantly say, "I'm broke," or "I can't find a good man," or better still my favorite 'I can't seem to get any peace," let me enlighten you: until your focus (mindset) switches from what you don't have or can't find, you will not welcome it into your experience. If we instead begin to focus on what we do have and take a stance of gratitude for what we currently have in our lives, we allow ourselves to open to the possiblity of welcoming into our lives what we really want.
It may sound crazy but it's true. Take relationships as an example, everyone knows that when you stop looking for Mr. Right or Ms. Perfect, they appear out of thin air...is it coincidence, NO!
Do you have a desire for living a life filled with passion, abundance, confidence and expectation...but somehow you can't find what it would take to make it a reality? It is my desire to unveil proven techniques to experience a life filled with each of these and more in my upcoming TeleSeminar Find Your PACE.
Sometimes you just have to change your vantage point to see that what you wanted and needed was there all the time.
For more information about the upcoming TeleSeminar, Find Your PACE, please visit http://www.incredibleoneenterprises.com/find_your_pace
Darnyelle A. Jervey is a speaker, coach and author committed to transforming the lives of women through empowerment. More than a motivator, she imparts skills, strategies and solutions that enhances the lives of her clients. Her company, Incredible One Enterprises is a full service empowerment firm in Newark, DE.
Copyright (c) 2010 Darnyelle A. Jervey All Rights Reserved.
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